Feeling Stuck? Here’s How to Find Your Purpose and Move Forward

Do you ever feel like you're trapped in a cycle of overthinking, unsure of what to do next? You wake up every day feeling restless, knowing deep down that something needs to change, yet you have no idea where to start. This feeling of being stuck is more common than you think—and the good news? You can break free.

For years, I felt completely lost. I traveled for seven years, moving from country to country, changing jobs, searching for something—but I didn’t know what. I kept thinking that the next destination, the next experience, or the next opportunity would finally give me the clarity I was looking for.

But instead of finding clear answers, I often found myself questioning everything.

What I didn’t realize at the time was that feeling lost was part of the journey. It was through this process of uncertainty, change, and constant reinvention that I finally understood what I truly wanted. Looking back, I’m grateful for every challenge, every moment of doubt, and every fear I had to overcome—because they led me to where I am today.

And the steps I’m about to share? They’re exactly what I applied to my own life to go from feeling stuck to creating a life that excites me every single day.

Why Do We Feel Stuck?

Feeling stuck usually happens when:
✅ You’re living on autopilot, doing what’s “expected” instead of what you truly want.
✅ Fear of failure, judgment, or the unknown is holding you back.
✅ You lack clarity about your goals and what excites you.
✅ You’ve outgrown your current situation but don’t know the next step.

If this resonates with you, it’s not because you’re incapable—it’s because you’re at a turning point. And that’s a good thing.

How to Break Free and Move Forward

1. Get Honest About What You Want

The first step to getting unstuck is self-awareness. Ask yourself:
👉 What excites me?
👉 What am I tired of tolerating in my life?
👉 If fear wasn’t a factor, what would I do?

Journaling these thoughts can reveal what your heart already knows but your mind is resisting.

2. Identify What’s Holding You Back

Often, it’s not a lack of opportunities—it’s the stories you tell yourself. Thoughts like:
🚫 "I’m not good enough."
🚫 "It’s too late to start over."
🚫 "What if I fail?"

The key? Challenge these beliefs. Ask yourself: Is this really true, or is it just fear talking? Growth happens when you stop letting limiting beliefs dictate your future.

3. Take One Small Step—Right Now

The biggest mistake people make? Waiting for the perfect moment. Newsflash: There is no perfect moment.

🔹 Want to change careers? Research one job today.
🔹 Dream of traveling? Book a ticket—even if it’s months away.
🔹 Want to start a project? Write down one action step and do it now.

Even tiny steps create momentum. And momentum is what turns dreams into reality.

4. Surround Yourself With Growth-Minded People

You become the sum of the voices around you. If you're constantly hearing negativity or fear, it will reinforce your doubts. Instead, connect with people who challenge, inspire, and uplift you. Whether it’s through books, podcasts, or a coach—your environment matters.

5. Trust the Process

Getting unstuck isn’t about having everything figured out—it’s about having faith in yourself. Your purpose isn’t something you "find" overnight; it’s something you create by moving forward, step by step.

My Final Thought

If you feel stuck, you’re not lost—you’re just ready for something new. I know because I’ve been there. My travels didn’t give me the answers I was searching for—but they forced me to step outside my comfort zone, face my fears, and take action.

And that’s the secret: You don’t find your purpose by waiting. You create it by moving forward, one step at a time.

💡 Now it’s your turn! What’s ONE small action you can take today to move forward? Voilà!

I'll see you soon,
Tiphaine